问坛上君子当如何

茶坛是文城的特殊地界,茶油们多有尚古之心,这两天又开始谈何为君子,尽管莫衷一是,却让老键坐立不安,不断走到镜子前,按茶油的各种标尺来量头丈脑,还有,自己这两天确做了一两件自觉也不甚君子的事,处于深深自责中,会不会茶油们都有所指?更油头汗面了。

自责完后还得开解自己,于是就想,君子这词实在太古老了,我们是否还要把他当作人模,街上任何一个美女,把她纳入盛唐美人杨贵妃的模子里绰绰有余是个丑妞。不说今古度量衡没有统一,今天的世界要比古时阔大复杂多少?毫厘无以刻入纳米之微,千里不足丈量光年之巨,古时对人的判量,多以个人内品为尺度,温良谦恭,发乎情止乎礼,己所不欲勿施于人,今天呢,则以人的外张为标杆,从身材容貌到口才魅力,从科技大拿演艺大腕直至什么领袖型人才全球十大最具影响力人物,你试着说说科技君子(不搞山寨?)或领袖型君子(耶稣又来?)不磕掉自己大牙。虽然大拿领袖和自己八杆子打不着,但邻居违反疫情禁令在后院大邀亲朋,是向官府告发还是闷声不响,在生活中还是可能碰得到的,哪个更君子?觉得这个情况下,君子就是一只薛定谔的猫,死活随机,毫无一用(就如坛上争论表明的),到头来,还得靠自己的自由意志。

感觉好了许多,不过关于君子,有一点还是想搞明白的,这恰恰有关与人的外部关系,以前在坛上求教过,没有获得什么忠告,再提一下无妨,君子应该群而不党,党而不群,又群又党,不群不党?照古时说法君子之交淡如水,起码应该排除又群又党,又不是黑帮结伙是吧。不群不党? 自闭症患者啊;群而不党?街坊大妈一起叨叨张家长李家短;那么就剩下党而不群了,引心仪之人为同道但不必推杯换盏勾肩搭背,但是否又有点像暗恋?

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