读到星坛网友原点MM的心理学小知识,想起在Instagram上看到一则“6个简单心理学技巧“,觉得也很有意思,在这里和大家分享,下面每一条“注释”算是自己一点点心得吧,
1. If someone insults you, pause for a second and look at them and say "Are you okay?"
(注1:避免了他人99%的问题成为自己的问题。)
2. If you think someone is lying, look at their eyes and don't say anything.
(注2:尴尬的一定不是自己。)
3. If you're in an argument, keep your voice calm, it'll give them the impression that you're winning the argument.
(注3:这是避免冲突(争吵)的一个好方法!)
4. Good posture increases confidence. Spread your body out and take up more space, it'll lead to increased confidence.
(注4: 可以做小个实验,录一个自己的视频,看看是否认识自己,也许会惊到,当然开美颜滤镜不算。如果认识,恭喜!)
5. Your eyes dilate when talking to a person you love.
(注5: 带着爱意注视所爱的人,表达出来善念,很多人不习惯盯着对方的眼睛说话交流,应该成为一种自然而然的习惯。)
6. If you're not following me you're probably never going to see me again. If you are,
congratulations you're growing mentally every day.
(注6:共同见证彼此的成长。)