虽然我越来越象他们的管家,可是我的内心还是非常庆幸的。开心他们拥有这么年轻的心态,有着旺盛的求知欲,平和而努力地面对每一天的生活。反观自己,年纪轻轻却这么沉重,很容易草木皆兵。是什么原因让自己越来越敏感,越来越沉重呢?确实,米国是个让人缺乏安全感的地方,可是这毕竟是我当初的选择。虽然不能说“我选择,我喜欢”,但是至少选择了,就不要再三心二意地抱怨着。JUST TAKE IT, AND FACE IT GRACEFULLY。
又到了该调整心态的时候了。这些经历都是人生的必经之路,而我选择,更加勇敢快乐地走。
飘侠 发表评论于
年愈七十的人,千万不要再开车了。
北美这个社会福利不够发达的地方,非要老人开车,生理上不太适宜了。
ViewingTheWorld 发表评论于
驾车三要诀
远离前面车,
左转让直行。
若要换车道,
回头务看清。
潇潇鱼 发表评论于
JUST TAKE IT, AND FACE IT GRACEFULLY。喜欢姐姐你说的这个~
Morpheus 发表评论于
By applying the same principle of the negative-feedback-loop circuit, my life can be less of the unwanted noises and
detours, so I can have more power of an amplifier......
Face it gracefully.... that's my motto for everything, not only for failures, mistakes and pains
but also for successes, joys and happiness. Try to face mishaps with bravery and welcome fortunes with appreciation.
This will improve our attitude to a new proactive level, and also our ultimate goal: bracing for the challenges gracefully.
A lot of people can give inspiring advices to their friends, but when it comes to themselves, they could not
shake off the heavey loads in their minds and failed to be good shinks of their own. I for one is a member of this army.
I think your habbit of constant self-reminding, self-adjusting of emotional attitude is very helpful.
Use the techy jargon with which you are familiar here for once, negative feedback loop circuit cancels out noises
constantly and gives the most amplifying power. I guess you would be able share the analogy here given your background.