金玉良言

经历了一些事，发现前人所言极是，经验的积累，金玉良言啊。一些是切身体会，一些用以自勉。还要用以教育女儿，以后少走弯路。 :)

害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。
路遥知马力，日久见人心。
若要人不知，除非己莫为。
几所不欲，勿施与人。
从善如登，从恶如崩。
物以类聚，人以群分。
塞翁失马，焉知非福。
君子爱人以德，细人爱人以姑息。（君子爱人是成全别人的美德操守，小人爱人是无原则的姑息迁就？）

What's done cannot be undone. (覆水难收？故此要三思后行）
Character is what you are in the dark. (暗处最能反应人的品格？ 故此要慎独）
Curses come home to roost. (害人终会害己）
Grasp all, lose all. (贪多必失）
Time tries all. (时间检验一切）
A leopard cannot change his spots. (本性难移）
We know not what is good until we have lost it. (失去之后方觉珍贵）
Tomorrow is another day.
To forgive our enemies is a charming way of revenge. (宽恕是最好的报复？）
Heaven helps those who help themselves. (天助自助者）
The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget. (正在努力争取做个聪明人。。。）

Nothing is easier than to deceive one's self. (Demothenes) (再没有什么比自欺更容易了）
Love all, trust a few. (William Shakespeare)
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience. (Victoria Holt)
Never tell the truth to those who are not worthy of it. (Mark Twain)
There is, however, a limit at which forbearance ceases to be a virtue. (E Burke) （克制也有个限度，超过限度便不再是美德）

看到一个黄色的，现在还不能跟女儿讨论，为时过早，我等等等，等个10年吧。：）））
God gave us a pxxxx and a brain but not enough blood to use both at the same time. (Robin Williams 说的，男人写照？）