以爱情誓言的名义想想现在，也想想过去

读了五七君的短文，也有许多感想。现在就写出来，就教于朋友们。

很久了，每当我看到在路上一对老年夫妇颤颤巍巍，互相搀扶着走过，我就感动得要哭。
每当我看到在病床边一位老人守望着她（他）的丈夫或妻子的时候，我也感动得要哭。
每当我想起我外婆给我中风的外公喂饭的情景，我也感动得要哭。

我觉得这些就是人类最珍贵的爱情；人性最美丽的光辉。

有时候面对一些吵着要离婚（指没有第三者）的朋友，我就不禁要想，那初恋时的热情到那里去了？那时侯追着，求着，哭着，闹着要结婚。现在就觉得她（他）老了，病了，难看了，唠叨了，庸俗了，不再浪漫了，就要离了，图清静了。不！我觉得是不能这样的。对方的所有这些变化其实都和你有关，她（他）的付出才有你的成功，你的现在。她（他）的衰老和疾病是她（他）对自己身体的过度透支引起。她（他）变难看了，是你没有把他（她）保养好，她（他）的唠叨，庸俗就是因为她（他）太操劳她的精神生活太枯燥的缘故。如果她（他）也能有足够的时间听音乐，读书，上网，看电影，看画展，旅游。她（他）或许也会很高雅，很浪漫。

所以作为夫妻，无论贫穷还是富有，无论疾病还是健康，如果确实是相爱结婚，那以后一定也要互相搀扶，互相守望，互相给对方以精神支持。

不管现在年轻还是年老，我们经常要以爱情誓言的名义想想现在，也想想过去。

附：结婚誓言

I,[Groom's name],take you [brede's name],to be my wife,my partner in life and my one true love.

I will cherish our friendship and love you today,tomorrow,and forever.

I will trust you and honor you.

I will laugh with you and cry with you.

I will love you faithfully.

Through the best and the worst,

Through the difficult and the easy.

What may come I will always be there.

As I have given you my hand to hold.

So I give you my life to keep.

So help me God.

I,[brede's name],take you [Groom's name],to be my husband,my partner in life and my one true love.

I will cherish our friendship and love you today,tomorrow,and forever.

I will trust you and honor you.

I will laugh with you and cry with you.

I will love you faithfully.

Through the best and the worst,

Through the difficult and the easy.

What may come I will always be there.

As I have given you my hand to hold.

So I give you my life to keep.

So help me God.

In unison

Entreat me not to leave you,or to return from following after you,

For where you go I will go,

and where you stay I will stay.

Your people will be my people,

and your God will be my God.

And where you die,I will die and there I will be buried.

May the Lord do with me and more if anything but death parts you from me.


i want to take this man/woman to my lawful wedded husband/wife,
to love him/her and cherish him/her,
for better or worse,for poorer and richer.


神父会说:

XX,你愿意娶XX小姐为你的妻子么？照顾她，爱护她，无论贫穷还是富有,疾病还是健康,相爱相敬,不离不弃,永远在一起?

新郎会回答:

我愿意娶XX我的妻子!照顾她，爱护她，无论贫穷还是富有,疾病还是健康,相爱相敬,不离不弃,直到死亡把我们分离