一些智商特别高的MM其实在这一点上反而容易失分。这些MM从小都是品学兼优的尖子生,具有很强的独立思考和判断能力,见解往往深刻而独到,但由于长期习惯于自己的一贯正确和他人的夸赞肯定,容易表现得主观武断,咄咄逼人,机锋大露,对许多事情过于斤斤计较 睚龇必报。再就是正义感太强,万事都要论出个是非对错来,说到底还是过于相信自己的理性判断能力了。这样的女人,可以是成功的女强人,也许可以成为男人们的红颜知己soul mate,但真要让哪位男性与她长期生活,呵呵,估计换谁都是一句 Thank you very much! 然后就逃之夭夭了...
Bobby Goldsboro在他这首60年代的老歌蜜糖(Honey)里,为我们描摹了一位富于爱心,感性浪漫,柔和温顺的女性形像:
See the tree, how big it\'s grown But friend it hasn\'t been too long It wasn\'t big I laughed at her and she got mad The first day that she planted it, was just a twig
Then the first snow came And she ran out to brush the snow away So it wouldn\'t die Came runnin\' in all excited Slipped and almost hurt herself And I laughed till I cried
She was always young at heart Kinda dumb and kinda smart and I loved her so And I surprised her with a puppy Kept me up all Christmas Eve two years ago
And it would sure embarrass her When I came in from workin\' late \'Cause I would know That she\'d been sittin\' there and cryin\' Over some sad and silly late, late show ... ----------