这是接上面的1的一个回答。跨坛的一位姑娘说她看到他就紧张地几乎不能呼吸，俺给她写了下面的话:
If U can't breathe in front of him, he probably has known your crush on him. He did not make any moves further, that only means he is not interested (enough) in you yet.
To make him interested, you need to make positive impressions to him. If you feel low in front of him, then you will never make a positive impression in person. Is there any other way to make a positive impression?
Later (no need now as I think he is not interested enough now) when you wanna know if he is interested, when he asks you what you will do on weekend, just say "I am going to see movie ABC" or "I am going dancing" or some other activities. If he is interested he will ask if you are going alone. Otherwise, he is not. You need to "blah blah" in a way to leave room for him to show interest.
其实就一句话，想让别人爱自己，必须用自己的优点去赢来爱情。尤其让他觉得好棒的优点，也就是在他感兴趣的事情上的优点。当然最好你自己也感兴趣，要不有点亏待自己了。
两个人在一起兴趣相投，当然能走得更远。
你还记得施胜杰的一个相声，叫“爱优点”吗？ 人都爱优点，爱优秀。
爱情是赢来的！
