回复懒黑熊的评论:
根据US Department of Justice, 2000.数据："Every year, about 1.5 million women and more than 800,000 men are raped or physically assaulted by an intimate partner. This is about 47 intimate partner assaults per 1,000 women and 32 intimate partner assaults per 1,000 men. " 你所提供的一个单独数据只是事物的一个方面。数据分析的意义在于数据的趋势和对比。
Don't get me wrong...You guys are doing a great job. And I am fully aware that you are not responsible and do not have the resources for the abused men. I did want create balance but I may picked the wrong spot.
I apologize for hijacking the comments and diverted it to an unintended direction.
One thing that does make me feel a little uncomfortable is the surprise. As I pleasantly looked at the pictures, relating to it, and coming to the end---I got reminded to be aware of men abusing women. It’s just so unrelated to the blog and pictures I just read, and I have been reminded so many times.
But this is your blog, and this is your goal. Many women may need to read the articles. So I don’t have any complaints.
I was thinking maybe you can name your group after a flower, a flower that is beautiful, strong, and resilient. That may make it easier for the reader to transit from a relaxing, pleasant blog talking about warm past, to the topic of domestic violence or abuse.
Thanks everyone. You guys have gone through it and I am sure you would understand. I just think the abused men shoud get better awareness. However most likely they are too busy working extra hours to pay child support / almony and to pretect their children from an abusive (ex)wife.
Check this out:
Every 37 seconds, a man is physically assaulted by an intimate partner, (Department of Justice, 2000).
THE PROBLEM:
Men are also victims of abuse at the hands of women, as much as 50% of the time, and no one is talking about it. Men need acknowledgment and support to overcome the abuse they endure, but most are left to 'go it alone.'
I maintain that, unless physical violence is involved, women can be equally abusive emotionally, verbally, and psychologically. Abusive wives not only do exist, but are actually more common than one may think.
I have seen a few times at wenxuecity that a desperate husband trying to seek advice on how to protect the kids from an abusive wife.
An abusive family may raise the next generation of abuser, regardless of the gender.
Thanks for sharing. You can tell your grand aunt is very close to her mother - your great-grand mother. And you look like your mother. My grandma also lost a boy. After his death, she never trusts chinese medicine again
