Today I spent some time to write something about loneliness which I even don’t have a clear answer.
Do you feel lonely? I guess whoever isn’t the native relatively should all have different level of loneliness, but here I am not talking about the homesickness but the lonely soul.
People usually want to be recognized and understood, unfortunately in today’s fast paced world, not so many people are interested by other’s thoughts unless they feel those are useful for them; therefore, people in this case eagerly seek someone who can pay attention to their story, frustration and complaining etc. This person may be her or his spouse or somebody else; it depends on whether they can share a lot of things in common or not.
The loneliness doesn't mean hopeless, as matter of fact, some people prefer to be alone, especially the writers or artists because they believe the solitude may be a helper for them to complete the work easier and quicker.
Despite the loneliness is kind of sore feeling, but not everyone actually can be able to afford to think about loneliness. If someone worries about how to put food on table everyday, definitely there is no much time and energy left for a person to think about other feelings, so only those who at less have steady life may think about to get points across with someone else in a higher stage.
To find a true soul-mate, in terms of having the same belief, isn't a very easy task, you may need to spend time and effort, or even a little bit of luck too, but the important thing should always keep in mind is never miss the chance to tell she or he who is the one you looking for if you are lucky enough to meet one.
