吃晚饭时，TM 告诉我， D 要与 S 和S的几个朋友(都是女孩)，去酒吧 玩. 然后sleep over.
我和TM对D的这个朋友S 没有好印象. 她们上高中时，S 就时常邀请D玩到很晚才回来。后来我才知道，跟她们在一起玩儿的，竟是两个高中毕业，就出来打工的社会青年。 也不知道 S是怎么跟他们混到一起的。
那时， D 非常叛逆。家长的话不听，朋友一喊就走。 当时气得我，就想撒手不管了。 让她自生自灭吧！
时隔三年，俩人暑假。 又凑到了一起。
我问TM，你怎么跟TA说的？
她妈说，我是不喜欢S。
我说，不是喜欢不喜欢的问题！这是大是大非的原则问题！如果TA问我，我的回答是No！
TMD，几个年轻女孩儿，深更半夜到酒吧去混！ 你想干嘛啊！ 招人呐？ 招也别在这种地方招人啦。 深更半夜在酒吧里鬼混的，都是些下三滥。
盛气之下，立刻给D发微信。表明我的态度。
@D? Mom told me you are going to sleep over with S and a bouch of girls. If you are asking us. We both say NO. S is not the girl growing up with good family education. she has no rules in her family or she never listen to her parents if there is a rule. she grow up in wild. She already gave you the bad impact in your life. We wish you realize it after 3 years. but you didn,t.
and we know you are aldult now. we can,t control you. if you decide to go , its your choice. We can't stop you.
We hope you could listen to us, as parents, We dont want see you slip down to a wrong way. and I,d like talk with you about S. We feel more confortable if you are with E. He is from a thealth family.
Mom is scared aganst you. So I speak up. I hope you understand.
发完微信，我对TM说。 你看一下，发表一下你的意见。 别装做没看见。
TM说， 我不知道该说啥。
。。。。！TMD 气死我了！ 说! 你同意我！
晚上， D 和TM特意来找我谈。 D 还是想要去。 说 S 不是我想象的那样。 我说，OK， as I said, it's your choice. 但我希望，你不要在酒吧呆到，超过12点. 那是是非之地，decent people won't go there. 你看过不少 ID 电视节目吧.
D说，我会小心的. 我知道.
D 来找我谈，说明她对爸爸还有 respect. 没有争吵，没有红脸. 我的话TA也听进去了. 也就是这样了. 比以前好多了.
半夜，D 微信， we didn't go out.
