【随想】天使落到人间，那他一定非常孤单
百度裴吧 简73
我一直在想，裴勇俊的身上，到底是什么在吸引着我？他外形俊朗、气质优雅，令人仰慕；他为人真诚，努力工作，让人敬重。可是，这些还不够。真正令我不舍的，可能是他身上的那份落寞和不经意间流露的孤单。
真的，裴勇俊、申东贤和姜俊尚，他们很像。他们都非常优秀，仿佛可以得到一切，可是并非如此，他们的内心非常孤单寂寞。别人想走近他们，非常不易。他们能接纳别人，就更难。
裴勇俊虽然集万千宠爱于一身，但他事事追求完美的个性和“一举一动都会成为新闻”的外界压力使他失去了自由。其实，人的天性中本就有“恶与丑”的一面，可是，严谨自律的性格和许多人对他近乎信仰的爱让他不得不摒弃这一切，他必须时刻以完美的形象出现。我想，这一定也让他感到很辛苦吧？
幸好，他的家人很爱他。这可以给他些许温暖，所以他很珍视他们。但是，这种温暖只是外在的，它更像是一种动力，它促使他继续努力、不断向前。可是，当他夜不能寐、独自哭泣的时候，谁能把他搂在怀里，安抚他疲惫的身心？
曾经有家人说过，裴勇俊是落入凡间的天使。天使落入凡间，这是我们的幸运。可是，落入凡间的天使，他一定很孤单。
所以，我想对他说，缺陷的存在不仅合理，而且必然。所以，不必太辛苦。我们能够理解，并且因为理解而更加喜爱。
(cam)译成英语，转到Quilt网上:
I could not stop thinking. What is drawing me so intensely to BYJ?
His handsome looks and gracious qualities are admirable. His sincerity and earnestness are respectable. But these are not all, what makes me truly attracted to him, is perhaps the revelation of that desolation, his unconscious disclosure of loneliness.
Actually, BYJ, Shin Dong-hyuk and Kang Joon-sang are quite similar. They are all truly exceptional. It’s like they could have anything they wish, but in the depths of their heart there is a loneliness by no means totally secluded. It is extremely difficult to get close to them. For them to be open to others is even more difficult.
Although BYJ is loved by millions around the world, his pursuing of perfectionism and the close watching of his every move, has placed enormous pressures on his freedom. Although it is natural for us to possess and display our weaknesses, for BYJ, gone are the carefree days, as emphasis of glorifying him become more intense. His practice of rigorous self control becomes more important as at all time he needs to display that perfect image. I am thinking, what a strenuous life? This must be so tiring for him.
Luckily, his families love him dearly. This may give him a small amount of comfort. Therefore he treasures them dearly. But this kind of warmth may only be on the outside. It acts as a dynamic force, in order to move/take him to the next level and work harder. But who is there to comfort his bleary soul and to embrace his exhausted body when he cannot sleep and feels lonely and teary at night?
As his family, some have said that BYJ is like an angel descended from Heaven. This is so fortune for us/mankind, but for the angel, he could be very lonesome.
Therefore, I just want to tell him. No one is flawless. Don’t be so laborious. We understand and because of our understanding, we love you even more.
