OMG, Duke, is this your definition of happy life?

An Affair To Remember
She was 82. He was 95. They had dementia. They fell in love. And then they started having sex.

Bob\'s family was horrified at the idea that his relationship with Dorothy might have become sexual. At his age, they wouldn\'t have thought it possible. But when Bob\'s son walked in and saw his 95-year-old father in bed with his 82-year-old girlfriend last December, incredulity turned into full-blown panic. I didn\'t know where this was going to end, said the manager of the assisted-living facility where Bob and Dorothy lived. It was pretty volatile.

Because both Bob and Dorothy suffer from dementia, the son assumed that his father didn\'t fully understand what was going on. And his sputtering cell phone call reporting the scene he\'d happened upon would have been funny, the manager said, if the consequences hadn\'t been so serious. He was going, \'She had her mouth on my dad\'s penis! And it\'s not even clean!\' Bob\'s son became determined to keep the two apart and asked the facility\'s staff to ensure that they were never left alone together.

After that, Dorothy stopped eating. She lost 21 pounds, was treated for depression, and was hospitalized for dehydration. When Bob was finally moved out of the facility in January, she sat in the window for weeks waiting for him. She doesn\'t do that anymore, though: Her Alzheimer\'s is protecting her at this point, says her doctor, who thinks the loss might have killed her if its memory hadn\'t faded so mercifully fast.



http://www.slate.com/id/2192178/?GT1=38001