回复xiaoc288的评论:
Jing deserting Zheng is never a decent thing. However my impression is that she is lost in desperation. Jim just fills in the emptiness that Zheng left. Jing in nature is not a material girl, she lost hope in Zheng. The sheer superiority of Jim in social status, wealth and career success at the time may have overwhelmed and blinded her. If she realizes she and Zheng can achieve that sooner or later, more or less, she will not give up that quickly. She does not realize that youth is priceless and not look far enough. That is the tragedy of her. Juan is a saint, no argument of that, but Jing deserves better...
Not sure if Jing really loves Jim. She may realize they just exchange what they need not long after their marriage. Her kindredness to Zheng later shows guilty, but more importantly the regret she may yet realize.
回复十年退休的评论:
Hope this story can help new comers to make a better judgement. This is twisted. But maybe Jing will go back to Zheng, you never know.
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回复imtheman的评论:
It is very hard to tell what will be the final result for a decision made at current moment. This is so-called "事后诸葛亮,事前猪一样".
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"人是很复杂的。不同的人看同一个人,会有很不相同的评价。我还是想说,静就是一个普通人,有优点,也有缺点,不是天使,也不是魔鬼。"
The sad thing about Jing is that she changes for worse. Zheng is another Jim give or take in the future. Jing gives him up too quickly. I am not saying she is a saint, just sorry for Jing and Zheng, a perfect young couple, and their happiness ruined like this. Why they need to go through this just because of some old-timer happen to be Zheng's advisor
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"不用急,她这个人很要求上进,会提高自己的"
Do not tell me Jing will leave Jim for 肖君杰 !? But actually they are a good pair.
回复imtheman的评论:
Sorry, messed up. Here is the correct one:
Kind of disagree. She is not that heartless like some people said. Jing certainly needs love and care like everyone else. She is like most of us spending most of her life in the school. She even works in the school. Her expectation of life is far from mature. That is the cause of this tragedy and she may be the one hurt the most.
Assuming all things said are true, then Jim is a outright loser before he met Jing. He is a old bachelor, having no close friends. His life is his lab and his papers, which is normal for a researcher. He chases every beautiful girl in his lab and is despised by his students and colleagues. He does not have a life. Jing is probably the last hope of his happiness. Jing is his savior. Luck him, he got her.
For Jing, she is young, beautiful and kind hearted. She deserves a young, loving and admiring husband as her companion. She deserves better. However, she ends up a Jim's lap pet from the princess of Zheng. Marrying Jim hardly equals joining the high class. It is almost impossible that Jim's circle will accept her. And Jim is just an old timer in the eyes of the people born here, showing his face at some academic conferences and student graduation ceremonies and working busily with his tubes and scales. Will Jing be happier, may be in the first several years... Zheng's pain is temporary, but Jing's regret will be long lasting. She is the real victim and she has so much potential...
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回复xiaoc288的评论:
Kind of disagree. Jing certainly needs love and care like everyone else. She is like most of us spending most of her life in the school. She even works in the school. Her expectation of life is far from mature. That is the cause of this tragedy and she may be the one hurt the most.
Assuming all things said are true, then Jim is a outright loser before he met Jing. He is a old bachelor, having no close friends. His life is his lab and his papers, which is normal for a researcher. He chases every beautiful girl in his lab and is despised by his students and colleagues. He does not have a life. Jing is probably the last hope of his happiness. Jing is his savior. Luck him, he got her.
Kind of disagree. She is not that heartless like some people said. Jing certainly needs love and care like everyone else. She is like most of us spending most of her life in the school. She even works in the school. Her expectation of life is far from mature. That is the cause of this tragedy and she may be the one hurt the most.
Assuming all things said are true, then Jim is a outright loser before he met Jing. He is a old bachelor, having no close friends. His life is his lab and his papers, which is normal for a researcher. He chases every beautiful girl in his lab and is despised by his students and colleagues. He does not have a life. Jing is probably the last hope of his happiness. Jing is his savior. Luck him, he got her.
For Jing, she is young, beautiful and kind hearted. She deserves a young, loving and admiring husband as her companion. She deserves better. However, she ends up a Jim's lap pet from the princess of Zheng. Marrying Jim hardly equals joining the high class. It is almost impossible that Jim's circle will accept her. And Jim is just an old timer in the eyes of the people born here, showing his face at some academic conferences and student graduation ceremonies and working busily with his tubes and scales. Will Jing be happier, may be in the first several years... Zheng's pain is temporary, but Jing's regret will be long lasting. She is the real victim and she has so much potential...
She always wants to take advantages of her different marriages according to the novel.
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你真是个呆子,对小静那样的人来说,有没有爱,并不是最重要的。
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Jing should get a MBA from a good school. She is a natural people person and talented in management. Her potential is not just a lab manager, who can say in straight face she cannot achieve things on par with Zheng or even Jim if not bigger? Instead she is living in this narrow space almost suffocating – earning a salary from Jim and taking care of her ex-husband. Seeing her becoming a saint makes me sad. I can only wish she really loves Jim.