最近发现花很多时间和精力管孩子,就给他量身制订了这个。孩子很喜欢,很愿意follow. 效果不错。这个年龄段的孩子需要direction,需要学习如何合理安排时间,明确知道每天放学具体的都要做什么。我没有具体规定他的时间作息,目地是让孩子学习合理分配他自己的时间。培养孩子有时间观念,有责任心,自律,和对时间的掌控和管理能力很重要。孩子爱拖延做事爱磨蹭的一个重要原因,就是缺乏时间观念和自律意识。
7 Year Old Weekday Schedule
Num | Daily To Do List | Mon | Tues | Wed | Thurs | Fri | Total |
1 | Play no video games (computer, iPhone, iPad, Wii) | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
2 | Take jacket home from school | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
3 | Wear slippers at home | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
4 | Say no bad words | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
5 | Put dirty cloth into laundry basket | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
6 | Make desk clean and neat | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
7 | Drink 1000ml water at home | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
8 | Eat 1 to 1 - 1/2 cup of fruits at home | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
9 | Drink 1 glass of milk | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
10 | Eat one egg of any form | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
11 | Finish dinner in 15 minutes | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
12 | Brush teeth 2 times | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
13 | Read 30 minutes | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
14 | Play piano 1 hour | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
15 | Play violin 30 minutes | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
16 | 主动做作业 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
17 | 主动弹钢琴 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
18 | 主动拉小提琴 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
19 | Study Chinese 10 minutes | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
20 | Study 1 lesson of Wordly Wise | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 5 |
Rewards:
Score 90 to 100 -------- 2 hours video games on the weekend + playdate
Score 80 to 89 -------- 1 hour video games on the weekend
Score 79 and under -------- No video games on the weekend
Extra Credits = Extra Rewards
Extra 30 minutes on piano on weekdays = 10 minutes TV or video game time on the weekend