我这样教导那个揪儿子耳朵的孩子

我这样教导那个揪儿子耳朵的孩子

作者：与尘共舞 (4/25/2014)

今天，我提早去接三女儿和儿子。当我进到Cafeteria时，见里面空无一人。管放人的老师对我说：“Samuel is playing outside.”我便前往Art Room 先接女儿。我和女儿正要出门，就见儿子满头大汗地跑了进来，我给了他一个拥抱，问：“Did they pull you ears today?” 儿子摇头。边说，我们三人边出了Art Room。我让女儿先在Cafeteria 等，复对儿子说：“Are they in after school care?”儿子说，有一个在。我让儿子带我去见见他，儿子先是不同意，我保证道：“Mommy is going to be super nice. After today, you and him can become best friend. Trust me.” 儿子似信非信地同意了。

我俩来到Playground，哇，好热闹！我问：“What's his name?”儿子说：“Clifford.” 说完，朝Playground的尽头跑去，边跑边叫：“Clifford, Clifford, my mom wants to talk to you.” 我觉得儿子有点像给Clifford通风报信的感觉。哎，这孩子就是心善，不忍心给对方来个下马威。这要是放在有的小孩，看见有自己的父母给撑腰，马上就凶起来啦。可儿子非常友好地找到Clifford，把他带到我的身边。

我看见一个比儿子稍高稍胖的小黑孩，厚厚的嘴唇，迷茫的双眼，好像没有睡醒的样子。这孩子的面相，可不像欺负人的那种：憨厚敦实，不招人反感。他见了我，有些意外，问：“What?”儿子马上解释：“My mom wants to talk to you about......you know......the pulling ear thing.” Clifford马上紧张起来，道：“I was just playing with him.”这时，有一群小朋友都围了过来，大呼小叫着：“你好！Samuel's mom! 你好！” 嘿，中文说得不错嘛！我一边跟这些小朋友打招呼，一边把注意力转回Clifford，道：“so you were just playing with Samuel?” 他点头。我问儿子：“Samuel, he was playing with you. Did you like it?” 儿子说：“No.” 我又看着Clifford说：“Did you hear it? He did not like it. So, please don't do it anymore even if you think you are playing. OK?” Clifford懵懂着，但也点了头。我伸出手，道：“Come on, give me a five.” 他伸手跟我击了掌，我又让他和儿子击了掌。然后，我大声对围观的孩子们说：“We all need to learn to respect each other, right?” 大家都说：“Right.”

这时，看管的老师来了，问：“What happened?” 我说：“I was talking to Clifford something. ” 老师有些不放心，我解释说：“Clifford pulled Samuel's ear. But he said he was just playing with him。” 老师马上严肃起来，冲着Clifford问：“Why do you pull his ear?” 我马上说：“He said he was not going to do it anymore.” 老师满意地点点头。我拉着儿子离开了playground。

在走出学校的路上，儿子紧紧地抱着我的腰，一刻都没有松离。我可以感觉出来，他在为我刚才的表现而自豪。怎么样，儿子？你娘表现的Super Nice 吧？你可知道，这得感谢网友的规劝啊。再次谢谢你们---我没有丝毫冲动，却友好地摆平了此事！