祝福你们,父亲母亲

本人爱写一些散文感想随笔之类的文字,除了自己留下一些记忆外,也愿意和别人分享,来这里和大家一起互相交流,取长补短,给生活带来一丝情趣。
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如果不是中国曾经的阶级成份论,我的父亲有可能就不会在大学分配之后被发往了西北边陲的煤矿小镇,如果不是中国曾经的3年大饥荒,我的母亲也许就安分守己的呆在农村一辈子,命运宛如一个无法预测的魔术师,它让我的父母以这样的一种方式来有缘千里来相识,在那样一个名不经传的小镇,相遇相知相爱成家。

如同那个时代绝大多数的年轻人一样,正统有余,开放不足,他们在行动中含蓄而羞涩的表达爱情,而在口头上却很难听到爱情常用的口头禅“我爱你”,一种特定时代下的爱恋仿佛一首朦胧的诗,宛如一杯甘醇的酒,温婉而持久,坚韧而牢固,虽然经历了无数的磕磕绊绊,虽然感受了无数的风风雨雨然而他们相辅相伴携手至今,也许他们是性格的互补,也许他们是命中的注定,父亲沉默寡言,母亲爽朗言笑,每每偶遇争执,熊熊烈火因为父亲的宽容博大的胸怀和寡言少语的性格,往往就能让火奄奄一息,重归于好,在争执中父亲锻炼了耐力,在平息里,母亲得到了满足,于是家庭又风平浪静。

我的印象中他们的确没有那种表达爱情的甜言蜜语,但那种悉心的关爱和真情的流露无不在一个个细微的情节里渗透出来:父亲外出时身上笔挺的西装上展现了母亲的工整的熨烫手艺,父亲生病住院时母亲忙前忙后的端水送饭中,以及父亲出差出门时母亲的千叮万嘱中,这一个个无声行动中,这一个个暖人的真诚里,就如同在表达我爱你的字字句句,多少年的风雨飘缈,转战迁移,让他们从英姿飒爽的青年渐渐的步入了而立不惑的中年,以及慢慢的进入退休之后的晚年,我看到的是他们形影不离的相互陪伴,我感受的是他们别具一格的有趣争执,几十年的婚姻的稳固,几十年相濡以沫的持守,一切的经典爱情浪漫的词语在他们身上我无从表达,然而我只是作为他们的孩子为能他们相互携手一辈子的这种爱而感到欣慰无比。爸爸,妈妈祝你们幸福,当然你们偶尔的吵嘴也是婚姻爱情中不可缺少的调料吧,祝福你们。

 

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