The elitist and the preppy

大学的传统虽然被现实不断异化，但还是文化的底蕴。

Yale, the secret societies; Princeton, the eating clubs and the lawn parties.

https://yaledailynews.com/blog/2022/12/09/sacred-rites-initiation-rituals-in-yales-secret-sects/

https://mysideofparadiseblog.wordpress.com/2016/09/18/lawnparties/

https://mysideofparadiseblog.wordpress.com/2018/03/11/bicker/

https://www.dailyprincetonian.com/article/2021/10/lawnparties-theme-music-clothing-princeton-authenticity

大学生活是人生成长的一个重要阶段, 进去一个孩子，出来会是什么样一个青年？