I've been dating without commitment for a while here - guys who know from the outset that I don't want a long term relationship. No 'lurve' confessions - just going out having fun....the occasional sleep-over. The guys feel the same way. It is possible - but you have to know yourself well enough to NOT get romantically attached to the guy you're dating. This is a small island, so it's not to hard for word to get 'round about love interests. I've heard through the grapevine that J has been seen 'out & about' with another girl. I don't really care - he makes time for me, that's all that matters. What's funny is we've been seeing each other since June [lol] and he still calls me his 'girlfriend' Keep telling yourself "I don't want an attachement" and it MIGHT work. It's easy for me to do that....but
