if you are a man, if a beautiful sexy white woman wants to marry you, would you refuse it because of her race?
if not, you should stop blaming the women who married white men. if you still cannot shut up, you are no different than the famous prostitute wanting a bai2 fang3.
武汉鹦鹉 发表评论于
Windlike, Applause!!This is the best ever comment I have read so far.
windlike 发表评论于
i shouldnt have commented on this "top 10 popular" article, but really cant help.
Come on! I mean seriously,you guys who swear about Chinese women being with "white guys". What's your point? What's wrong with women dating different races? WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM with that? We are all HUMAN BEINGS! Please!! Stop being a stupid narrowminded racist!!! Feel shame on you! Why do you think Chinese women have to and can only date Chinese guys, especially the chinese men like you?! You do not give any respects to Chinese women, not to yourself when you discuss or even agree with your so-called WhiteFriends who claim to have "known/dated/f***ed" chinesewomen and concluded those women were cheap!!! Think about it,if you have a brain, would you???!! Do you even think ANY decent man, no matter what race they are, would talk about women they have been with this way to their "friends/co-workers?????? I have been wondering what type of guys WOULD EVER do that?! They are no doubt TRAILER-TRASH themselve, so are you if you even have nodded!!!
STOP IT, PLEASE!!! YOU are making no points but shame and ignorance!!! It's more than enough!!So, SHUT UP!
who is this dr. liu? don't really know what he's trying to say. sounds like someone learned half of the thing and trying to pretend he knows it all.
春江水 发表评论于
OK! Please take it easy! 鹦鹉小姐,可能会让你失望的是,我不怕下地狱,你会很怕吧?不然你也不会用这样你认为很狠的话去诅咒别人了!英语里有很多动听优美的词语,不知你还会说什么。而且你不用中文与我说话,你可能是理屈词穷了吧。最后祝你多多保重,健康长寿!至于我的名字,只是一个代号而已,不需要你喜欢。恕我不再回言。
I think you misunderstood my point. I used "many Chinese women", not "all". I am sure there are a lot of great Chinese men. It is just do not make any childish generalization like that.
My point is DO NOT BLAME ON CHINESE WOMEN BECAUSE OF THE unfair treatment you received from the narrow-minded, stupid white men (or whatever the color is). Liu Lizi is fundamentally wrong with doing that. The manager refused to raise his salary has nothing to do with the Chinese women slept with him.
If I were Liu Lizi, I would ask the white manager that since he thinks so poorly about the women that have intimacy with him, why would he do that? Does that mean he thinks himself is cheap too?
gagawoo :Don't take personal.“ please first consider if Chinese males have given Chinese females enough respect, enough love, care... Unfortunately, many Chinese women have to turn to "foreigners" for these basic needs. ”你的这个结论比较偏激,并且以偏盖全,大概更多的是你本人对中国男人的看法吧。我不否认中国男人里(甚至白人男人里)有你说的这种人,但你在这里给中国男人下的定义太有失公正了吧。在我身边就有为了身份,经济的原因嫁给白人的中国女人,对此我不想评论,这完全是她们自己的选择。西方社会,在中国,由于一些嫁给或想嫁给白人的中国女人的不够检点(我姑且先用了这个有些言重的词)的言行,造成白人轻视中国女人,乃至轻视中国人的情况确实存在。可能你不是这样的女人,我也可以说我老公也不是这样的男人。因此我们说话还是要站在客观公正的立场为好。另外,不必太敏感,按自己认为对的选择去生活。
春江水 发表评论于
gagawoo :Don't take personal.“ please first consider if Chinese males have given Chinese females enough respect, enough love, care... Unfortunately, many Chinese women have to turn to "foreigners" for these basic needs. ”你的这个结论比较偏激,并且以偏盖全,大概更多的是你本人对中国男人的看法吧。我不否认中国男人里(甚至白人男人里)有你说的这种人,但你在这里给中国男人下的定义太有失公正了吧。在我身边就有为了身份,经济的原因嫁给白人的中国女人,对此我不想评论,这完全是她们自己的选择。西方社会,在中国,由于一些嫁给或想嫁给白人的中国女人的不够检点(我姑且先用了这个有些言重的词)的言行,造成白人轻视中国女人,乃至轻视中国人的情况确实存在。可能你不是这样的女人,我也可以说我老公也不是这样的男人。因此我们说话还是要站在客观公正的立场为好。另外,不必太敏感,按自己认为对的选择去生活。
wula 发表评论于
此文有种族歧视之嫌。作者的狭隘显尔易见。
Frappuccino 发表评论于
还有,旅行回来后经常会有美国朋友问chicago怎么样,dc ny great吧?我很坦白:感觉so so。比我们中国的大城市差远了,我和他们大谈鸟巢、水立方、央视新大楼。把他们说得很没“优越感”。中国现在很棒,中国人没必要降低自己的身份,“屈尊”嫁给白人。顺便说一句,这是本人的真实感受,并非阿Q精神。
I agree with all what you have commented. I am sad to see this blog by liulizi. Well, he has his right to show his opinion but the title seems going too far.
When you make comments like that, please first consider if Chinese males have given Chinese females enough respect, enough love, care... Unfortunately, many Chinese women have to turn to "foreigners" for these basic needs.
If you do not know to stop making comments like that, you will NEVER be able to get any respect from Chinese woman.
Agree with gagawoo. It is not a "mistake" to date non-Chinese. Chinese males have the freedom to do the same, but that does not help your "face" ot "status" unless you prove yourself to be a man, not just a male. Pointing fingers at your fellow Chinese women is more than stupid.
It was great that you realized the problems among overseas Chinese, and I agree with most of your argument.
However, I have to say that by pointing your finger on Chinese women marrying or dating foreign men, you lost a lot of credits. Don't you think this (blaming Chinese women for the unfair treatment you've gotten) is also a common weakness of overseas Chinese males?
The white male manager you used as an example to support your argument is just an individual case or an exception. Not all Americans think this way. One important feature of American culture is value individuality. Therefore, people do not easliy make generalization out of a couple of instance. The white manager is just a stupid guy. You used a stupid guy's shallow opinion to support your argument really ruined your whole effort.
Please do NOT take out your unhappiness and frustration on Chinese women. Anybody has the right to pursue whatever they believe in. Chinese women have the freedom to pursue their happiness from non-Chinese males. If you, a Chinese male, wants to establish your credit, do it yourself. Do NOT count on Chinese women to polish your face by what you suggested "not dating/marrying white guy."
A good question you should ask yourself is why so many Chinese women want to be in relations with non-Chinese men, especially when they already know there is culture gap, language gap. If you can find good answers to that question, you are closer to establish your credit on your own.
I think Chinese women are the greatest women in the world. I am pround of being a Chinese woman. Next time, when you diminize Chinese women, remember your mother, sisters, daughter (if you have one) are one of them.