America />/>is one of the most tolerant societies. Yet, it can be a racist society and rightly so. If you think this is irritating, well, try living in
By choosing to go into a melting pot dominated by white Anglo-saxon ingredients, we should have understood that we had entered into a river of no return. The majority of the culture we brought with us will be lost in two, three, and four generations down the track. It is beyond our control. We can swim against the tide. But that is definitely not something that will make us comfortable. There are two situations in which some people do swim against the tide of mainstream:
1. trying to stand still but still taken by the tide----most overseas Chinese try to do
2. literally swiming against the tide to manage to stand still or even to reverse the tide----some religious extremists do
Countries like
We should change our point of view from being new migrants to being new citizens of the countries that kindly adopted us, unless we set out to be the second category.
Let’s swim with the tide. By that I do not mean aspiring to join the elites’ club or painting our eyes blue. Let’s join our neighbours’ club, our communities’ club and ultimately, our adopted countries’ club, by becoming meaningful contributors, instead of being eye sores in the eyes of the mainstream and hoping that it will tolerate. Ask not what America can do for you, ask what you can do for America!
America/>/> had you at hello. There is no going back. You, being Chinese, might not wish to go back (in terms of offsetting your Westernised behaviour and your kids’ ABC, BBC, FBC, CBC status) anyway.