happiness is way beyond simple superiority

at the stage of seeking superiority, very often one compares strength of an apple with weakness of an orange,

also it's easy to develop some extremely subjective valuation criterion, "my way" becomes "the way",

then it comes a gradually narrowing mind, comes bias, comes bigotry,

and one's joy degrades into finding other peple's misery,

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the stage of seeking superiority is, at the core, still the stage of seeking acceptance,

self-esteem, while showing up overly strong on the surface, is in fact shaky... the appearance is only a result of overcompensation of the weak foundation.

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let's go beyond this childish stage, let go the burden,

for the sake of better mindset, better perspective, better finding and handling opportunities, and better self,

one that is at peace with self, with world, see more, "joy" more, fall less often, and go farther,

all best,









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