Hi Fang,
I felt so much touching after reading your email that you and Jack treat your tow sides ’parents very respectfully , sometimes I just spoke pretty strictly to my parents which might hurt them because we handle many things differently. Once my dad said “Are you in aged change period”, I realized I should appreciate more than demanding too much.
I am also pretty sad to hear your mom might lost memory, I can imagine what is look like and the feeling even though you took good care of her, she is hardly react… One of most scariest thing for some of f our friends is something will happen in the China one day, we are in abroad and it is too late and too far to help parent during last time of their life…I should mention this… I am very proud of your mom, “she has best sons and daughter in China ” I agree what Judy said before.
My dad has pretty regular life habit every day and he went to church every Sunday which brought him a lot of happiness. My parents are very caring about my heath, the warn me that “ I should become a evergreen tree, not a flower”, hey am I look like a tree now? Hehe.
Recommend you an article if you have time… Wish you happy always
Hongyun
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frsky2005
Hongyun,Good to know you are all doing good! I and Jack are thinking about moving together this year. He has two big contracts under way and we wish these could go smoothly, then I will be able to relocate to his place (he said he would give me a job, counting his money:). I hope his dream could become true. But at same time, I really enjoy being apart with him in current stage. I can concentrate on my own way to be with friends, to write, to accompany my parents.Jack is not like Frank's funny. (you still remember him? He is now a lawyer in Shanghai, still fighting with everyone he meets.) Jack acts like a big brother, he is a good man, respects and cares old people very much. Last May my parents went to his home for 10 days, he treated them as king and queen, of course he treats his own mother the same way, very 瀛濋『. He doesn't enjoy traveling, that's one thing bothers me. But I know "浜烘棤鍏ㄤ汉".My mom lost her memory badly, she suspects everyone around her stealing from her. She doesn't allow my dad to use househelpers and suspects my dad had affair with them. She now acts as a kid and torture everybody at home. We all need to fly back to home frequently to settle down her arguments with my dad. She is coming to Shanghai after Chiense new year.Will write to you more next time.Take care.Fang
鍦?008-01-19锛?#34;Hongyun ye"鍐欓亾锛?lt;BR> Hi Fang,I am very pleased to got your email and really happy for you and Jack. I have a question for you; don隆炉t you think you and Jack should move together? Or this apart is just perfect for you and Jack?The kids are growing pretty fast, and we need more time and energy on their education which can be really stressful, anyway the goal is as long as they are really happy. We do not have much change, now my parents live with us and gave a lot of help by making dinner during the week and they can take care of the kids when kids are sick and can not go to daycareWhen I came cross the pictures when We (Judy, you and Me) took in Judy隆炉s house and my house, I really miss the time we were together and regret that we could not make a trip together by ourselves J and hope we can reunion again some time.I am not sure I can make the trip in china this year, it will depend on the tickets, it might be hard to get tickets this summer during Olympic time and depends on John隆炉s schedule, and he will start a new contract job in one week. I love to go back China , now there is direct flight from Washington DC to Beijing .On the new year, I will not wish too much money( for a long time I wish L), but I wish to be healthy for myself and all my friends.Miss youHongyun
frsky2005 frsky2005@126.com> wrote:Dear Hongyun,I looked the album and was so happy with you for you. They are growing so fast. You look more beautiful!I spent 10 days during the new year with Jack. We visited his mom in Fuzhou and wandering in coast Xiamen. Being with Jack, life seems very peaceful, no challenge no inspiration. Even for business, he acts very gentle, like there was no any competition. I think that's the culture difference between Nother and South.Feb 7 is Chinese new year. I prepare to go back to Xian visiting my parents Jan 31 and then fly to Xiamen on Feb 8. Life becomes even shorter after knowing Jack. We have to fly one way or nother to visit each other.How are you doing? Work and home? Are kids all going to kindergarten? Are there any side parents with you? When do you prepare to come back for visiting?I wish you all the best in 2008.Miss you.Fang