很喜欢这一篇。追求知名度是一个青少年阶段的短期行为，有了自知之明（正确的自我观念，明白“我是谁”这个问题），就不需要依靠他人（特别是对于自己无关紧要的人）的肯定或否定来左右自己的信心了。
相关链接：向家有女孩的家长推荐 Popularity Papers (by Amy Ignatow)
知名度=Popularity? Popularity is “the state or condition of being liked, admired, or supported by many people.” The quest for popularity is often the cause of peer pressure. [See Page 14]
