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Amber Heard: I'm Still "Fiercely Independent" After Marrying Johnny Depp http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/amber-heard-im-still-fiercely-independent-after-marrying-johnny-depp-201596
Still her own woman! Amber Heard broke her silence on her recent marriage to Johnny Depp in a new cover story interview with Elle magazine, stunning on the front of the July issue.
The Magic Mike XXL star, 29, quietly exchanged vows with Depp, 52, this past February, holding multiple private ceremonies at their home in West Hollywood and on the beach in the Bahamas. The two began dating in 2012 after meeting on the set of The Rum Diary, but keep their relationship out of the public eye.
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"Nothing is a dramatic change," Heard told Elle of married life. "We've been together for a long time now, so it's been a fairly organic process. I have a fiercely independent spirit."
The gorgeous star echoed this need for independence when speaking to the mag about her professional career. She expressed her concern about fame taking over her life, keeping her from living as she pleases.
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"The thing that really scares me is the potential of losing my freedom," she said. "I never want for my life to lose the ability to transverse the world, with freedom and ease. The freedom and ease I have worked so hard to acquire for myself."
The new Mrs. Depp looks beautiful on the cover of Elle. She offers a peek at two tattoos on her midsection in a plunging one-piece Thapelo Paris maillot. The buttoned white suit is paired with a Ralph Lauren Collection wool jacket and a handful of Fred Leighton rings.
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Heard, who previously dated female photographer Tasya van Ree, wears her highlighted dark blonde locks in loose waves, and brings attention to her face with the pop of a bold red lip. The star is Depp's second wife, following an earlier marriage in the 1980s to makeup artist Lori Anne Allison. The Pirates of the Caribbean star was also famously in a 14-year relationship with Vanessa Paradis, and shares two children with the singer.
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“女人真正想要的是什么?”
国王亚瑟被俘,本应被处死刑,但对方国王见他年轻乐观,十分欣赏,于是就要求亚瑟回答一个十分难的问题,如果答出来就可以得到自由。
这个问题就是:“女人真正想要的是什么?”
亚瑟开始向身边的每个人征求答案:公主、牧师、智者……结果没有一个人能给他满意的回答。
有人告诉亚瑟,郊外的阴森城堡里住着一个老女巫,据说她无所不知,但收费高昂,且要求离奇。
期限马上就到了,亚瑟别无选择,只好去找女巫,女巫答应回答他的问题,但条件是,要和亚瑟最高贵的圆桌武士之一,他最亲近的朋友加温结婚。
亚瑟惊骇极了,他看着女巫,驼背、丑陋不堪、只有一颗牙齿,身上散发着臭水沟难闻的气味……而加温高大英俊、诚实善良,是最勇敢的武士。
亚瑟说:“不,我不能为了自由强迫我的朋友娶你这样的女人!否则我一辈子都不会原谅自己。”
加温知道这个消息后,对亚瑟说:“我愿意娶她,为了你和我们的国家。”
于是婚礼被公诸于世。
女巫回答了这个问题,“女人真正想要的,是主宰自己的命运。”
每个人都知道女巫说出了一条伟大的真理,于是亚瑟自由了。
婚礼上女巫用手抓东西吃、打嗝,说脏话,令所有的人都感到恶心,亚瑟也在极度痛苦中哭泣,加温却一如既往的谦和。
新婚之夜,加温不顾众人劝阻坚持走进新房,准备面对一切,然而一个从没见过面的绝世美女却躺在他的床上,女巫说:“我在一天的时间里,一半是丑陋的女巫,一半是倾城的美女,加温,你想我白天或是夜晚是哪一面呢?……”
这是个如此残酷的问题,如果你是加温,你会怎样选择呢?
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当时人格心理学的教授话音一落,同学们先是静默,继而开始热烈的讨论,答案更是五花八门,不过归纳起来不外乎两种:白天是女巫,夜晚是美女,因为老婆是自己的,不必爱慕虚荣;另一种选白天是美女,因为可以得到别人羡慕的眼光,而晚上可以在外作乐,回到家一团漆黑,美丑都无所谓。听了大家的回答,教授没有发表意见,只说这故事其实有结局的,加温做出了选择。于是大家纷纷要求老师说出结果。
How about you? Your thought? She demands respect and integrity - that's life toward love. You ask for love, but think about if you know what's love - Character counts for guarantee your love, not money, not power. Your love is within yourself, so unique, nobody else can touch, except you, only you.
Here is the answer:
老师说,加温回答道:“既然你说女人真正想要的是主宰自己的命运,那么就由你自己决定吧!”女巫终于热泪盈眶,“我选择白天夜晚都是美丽的女人,因为我爱你!”
所有人都沉默了,因为没有一个人做出加温的选择。我们有时候是不是很自私?以自己的喜好去主宰别人的生活,却没有想过别人是不是愿意。而当你尊重别人、理解别人时,得到的往往会更多。
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