搭子的出现,是虚伪的人际关系的结果

搭子,而不是朋友,的出现,是近几年的事情吧?

从最早的饭搭子,旅游搭子,最近还看到有存钱搭子,负面的还有假名媛们的“晒图搭子”。

我理解,相对朋友而言,搭子更具有“原本就陌生,以后也随缘”的特性,其出现的社会原因是什么呢?

人口减少,圈子减小,996横行,假大空流行,真心人难觅,似乎都是表象。

按说原本应该是有朋友就应该能解决的问题,为什么偏偏要找“搭子”?

当然是避开“朋友”的弊端。

那朋友能有啥弊端?

假朋友太多,虚情假意太普遍,恐怕脱不了干系。

在大揭发环境下,亲情都不能幸免,何况“朋友”?

不管公开讲,也不敢私下说,战战兢兢,犹犹豫豫,瞻前顾后,左右为难,u name it!

真TM累。

搭子,就轻松多了。

baladirk 发表评论于
的确, 与“专业陌生人”相处更容易。朋友随时随地会变。有时跟朋友说不出的话,很容易与“专业陌生人”说,比如费用问题。
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