蒋国兵的死因


我们可以很容易的判断:外界的压力是蒋自杀的主要原因,而蒋太太的作为起了推波助澜的作用。

我们都是俗人,时时刻刻的在跟周围做比较,尤其是自己的同学和朋友往往是个参照系。如果大家都做了同样的努力结果不同,必然会造成心理的落差。如何看待不同,大家作法不同。据我的感觉,大部份蛤蟆都能坦然处之:承认差距。但事情往往坏在鹅们不答应:

1 谁谁谁现在如何如何
2 你怎么如此缺乏上进心

等等埋怨的语言,如果这类语言经常性的环绕在蛤蟆耳边,必然会使得不平衡心理,失败心理不断加重。

而一般情况下,人虽然不会一帆风顺,但也不会永远倒霉,所以压力在不断释放。但蒋国兵的压力在长时间无法释放从而导致悲剧。

我的意思是:社会的压力, peer 的压力我们无法避免。但家庭内就别再添压了。
 


附注:

蛤蟆,癞蛤蟆——男人
鹅,天鹅——女人


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