这个社会到底怎么了?

爱,一个简单的字眼。但是,却那么不简单。没有爱的人生,是多么的悲哀和遗憾。那么,好好爱吧!爱生活、爱亲人、爱朋友、爱身边的爱人、
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艳照门事件错宗复杂,公说公有理,婆说婆有理。个人观点而已,留字并转载一篇具有学习意义的艳照门相关文章,存档这个值得思考的、关于道德和自由、关于隐私和舆论、关于艺人自由和公众形象、关于忠诚和滥交、关于名利和冲突的事件。

你情我愿(或相互利用)的隐私成为广为人知的谈资,是一种悲哀也是一种警示。或者只能说,作为社会中的任何个体,没有完全的自由,也没有只享受权利自由而不承担责任和义务的自由。
没有人喜欢看到自己暴露的照片被全球人指指点点,这些明星也是受害者。但是,他们本身对事件也有着不可推卸的责任:不上床不照相,何来的艳照门?不过,人家和谁睡觉照什么样的照片干别人什么事?!这不是干涉人权不让人吃饭睡觉了么?古今中外这种事情多的是了......
是的,你情我愿的隐私,是要完全受尊重和法律保护的。但是,似乎这是干乎一些人的大事的。为什么照这些照片?为什么被流传出来?是什么导致了艳照门的发生?在目前这种物欲纵横的社会,这个事件给社会什么样的影响和警示?背后有着怎样的操纵群体有着怎样错宗复杂的利害关系?这,世人或许永远都无法知道。

或许,这只是一个偶然被黑事件;或许,道德底线在娱乐圈甚至整个社会的伦陷,激发了某些道德卫士的战斗热情从而出来叫板娱乐圈;或许,这些明星都只是棋子,在江湖险恶中谋求生存。。。
当然,他们当初也完全可以凭着一身傲骨和节气甚至纯真离开娱乐圈,但是,抵制得了巨大名利诱惑的,能有几个?如果都品格高尚,也就不是当今的娱乐圈了。在物质至上的社会,高尚和生存是矛盾的冲突。所以,娱乐圈自有自己的潜规则,作为明星个体,要玩这个游戏自然就要遵守规则,他们有不可告人的悲哀和无奈。

话又说回来,明星要获得公众的喜爱和支持,自然就要接受公众审判和监督的目光;就要接受社会舆论和社会公德的评判。
对明星顶礼模拜的是我们的社会,这些明星是不是被我们的社会宠坏了?艳照门的发生,这个社会其实很受伤。社会对明星给予高回报高待遇,又是如何热切地期盼至真至善至美的明星。而艳照门的发生和继续,倒底是多大多复杂的一场斗争,倒底都需要谁来负责?不过,CGX再糜烂再下作再放荡不羁,他也可以有权选择不道歉,你情我愿的隐私,从法律角度,何错之有?!但是,他出来道歉了,被操纵也罢律师高深手笔也罢,他出来担起了自己的责任,给了被自己还有更多人甚至社会本身所摧毁的道德底线一个道歉和一个警示:我做的不对,不要学习我。

人非圣贤,谁能无过?怕的只是口是心非的伪善和对道德底线的鄙视践踏,怕的只是屡犯屡不改。平民百姓唯一能做的,也许就是八卦八卦和吐吐口水;而把握财力和权力的人或者利益集团,能否主动为社会筑建一堵更高一点的道德底线,就要看社会有什么样的福气了;什么样的社会环境造就什么样的企业家和领导者。

CGX道歉的英文确实不错,其中的意义不同的人有不同的想法。看到其反港时重重戒卫的深严,也可以大略知道背后牵涉怎样的利害集团;不知其今后造化如何了。

以下转载。可以从中好好学习英文词汇甚至危机公关; 向其中的勇气、责任感和智慧致敬。

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Today I have come back to Hong Kong to stand before you and account for myself. I have never escaped from my responsibility. During the past few weeks, I have been with my mother and my family and my loved ones to show support and care and at the same time to have them support and care for me.
核心词汇解析:account for 1) 说明,解释;2) 占…比例
escape from从…逃脱, 推卸责任
escape=es(ex=out) + cape(catch)

I admit that most of the photos being circulated on the Internet were taken by me. But these photos are very private and have not been shown to people and are never intended to be shown to anyone. These photos were stolen from me illegally and distributed without my consent.

核心词汇解析
circulate = circul(circle圆圈) + ate v.循环,流通
intend to v.打算去…
illegal = il(not) + legal (合法的) + ly adv.违法地
单词组记: distribute, contribute, attribute, tribute
distribute = dis(away)+ tribute(give) = give away vt.分发,传播
contribute = con(fully) + tribute vt.贡献; 投稿 [助记]全部都给了
attribute to v.归因于
tribute n.贡品,颂词 [助记] 给国王的礼物
单词组记:consent, dissent, resent, sentimental
consent = con(共同)+ sent(=sense情感) n.赞同,同意=agreement
dissent = dis(not) + sent n.不同意 [助记]不同的情感 = disagreement
resent = re(against) + sent n.憎恨 [助记] 相对抗的情感= hatred
sentimental[谐音]三屉馒头,失恋了只吃三屉馒头,所以是---a.多愁善感的


There is no doubt whoever obtained these photos have them uploaded on the Internet with malicious and deliberate intent. This matter has deteriorated to the extent that society as a whole has been affected by this. In this regard, I am deeply saddened. I would like now to apologize to all the people for all the suffering that has been caused and the problems that have arisen from this. Iwould like to apologize to all the ladies and to all their families for any harm or hurt that they have been feeling. I am sorry. I would like to also apologize to my mother and my father for the pain and suffering I have caused them during the past few weeks. Most importantly, I would like to say sorry to all the people of Hong Kong. I give my apology sincerely to you all, unreservedly and with my heart.

核心词汇解析
upload = up + load vt.上传(图片, 文件等)
download = down + load vt.下载(图片,文件等)
单词组记: mal-=bad坏
malice = mal + ice(冰) n.恶意;【律】预谋, 蓄意 [助记]在路上放一块冰,想让陈冠希滑倒,这是有预谋的恶意伤害。
malicious= malice(恶意) + ious(形容词) a.恶意的
mal-function n.功能紊乱
mal-nutrition n.营养不良
maltreat = mal + treat(对待) vt.虐待
单词组记: libra天平, deliberate, liberate, liberty, libertine, libido
一直到现在,英国的法院门口还站立着古希腊象征法律精神的正义女神(DICE)的雕像,她
左手拿着神圣的天平Libra,象征着权衡和平等;右手拿着宝剑,象征着裁决和力量;眼睛
被布蒙着,象征绝对的公正无私
deliberate = de(强调) + libera(=libra) + ate a. 深思熟虑的, 故意的 [助记] 把你的想法放在天平上称量,引申为深思熟虑的,深思熟虑的结果当然是故意的
liberate = liber (自由=libera)+ ate vt.解放(让人民获得自由)
天平的主要作用就是要让两边重量相等,平等。解放全人类不就是让人民平等吗?人民解
放军PLA:People’s Liberation Army liberation的职责就是解放全中国让中国人民平等自由
liberty n.自由
libertine这个单词叫"浪荡子",原来就是“特别自由的人”的意思,” 挺(tin)自由(liber)的”
libido弗洛伊德的著作里面,他造出一个表示“性动力”的单词libido(中文翻译成“利比多”),表达的就是这种本源的不受控制的力量
单词组记:deteriorate,interior, exterior, territory
deteriorate = de(down) + terior(土地) +ate(动词) v.使恶化; 败坏(风俗); 使变坏(品质等) [助记] 品格败坏的人就应该入土活埋
interior = in(into) + terior(土地) a.内部的,国内的
interior design 室内设计专业
exterior = ex (out)+ terior(土地) a.外部的,国外的
territory = territ(=terior)+ ory(地方) n.版图,疆土
to the extent 到了….程度
in this regard 在这一点上 = in this case
单词组记: 神奇的-en可以把形容词名词变为你想要的动词
sadden = sad + d + en vt.使人悲哀
strengthen = strength(strong的名词) + en vt.加强(力量)
weaken = weak + en vt.削弱
lengthen = length(long的名词) + en vt.
shorten = short + en vt.缩短
tighten = tight + en vt.拉紧
loosen = loose + en vt.放松
还有一个超级牛的单词前后都加en
enlighten= en + light + en vt.启蒙;(用思想)照亮
intent n.意图,打算
unreservedly = un + reserved(保留的) + ly(副词) adv.毫无保留地
I know young people in Hong Kong look up to many figures in our society. And in this regard, I have failed. I failed as a role model. However, I wish this matter will teach everyone a lesson. To all the young people in our community, let this be a lesson for you all. This is not an example to be set for you.
核心词汇解析
look up to 仰望,尊重= respect
look down upon/on 鄙视,瞧不起
role model 榜样

During my time away, I have made an important decision. I will whole-heartedly fulfill all commitments that I have to date. But after that, I decided to step away from the Hong Kong entertainment industry. I have decided to do this to give myself an opportunity to heal myself and to search my soul. I will dedicate my time to charity and community work within the next few months. I will be away from Hong Kong entertainment industry indefinitely. There is no time frame.

核心词汇解析
whole-heatedly 全心全意地; single-mindedly一心一意地
fulfill one's commitment vt.履行…的诺言
entertainment industry 娱乐业
health =heal(恢复健康) +th(名词)
heal (v.治愈,恢复) 是health的反向构词
dedicate to 把...奉献给,投身于...
charity = char(=care关心)+ ity(名词) n.慈善,慈善事业 [助记]关心穷人就是做慈善
I have been assisting the police since the first day the photos were published and I will continue to assist them. After this press con., I have obligation to help them with their investigation and hope that this case can end soon as everyone I think has the same wish.
核心词汇解析
assist = as(to) + sist(stand) vt. (站在一旁来) 协助
press con. = press conference 新闻发布会
press free. = press freedom 言论自由
press 是“压”的意思,怎么会变成“新闻”,“言论”呢?
因为最初的报纸都是油墨印刷,需要把纸紧紧的压在刻版上才能印刷出字来.所以press有了一个引申意:n.出版业,印刷业. 出版印刷业不就是发布新闻和言论的阵地吗?
obligation n.义务
investigation n.调查

I would like to use this opportunity to thank the police for their hard work on this case. Thank you. I believe everyone’s priority now (and) my priority now is to stop the suffering and pain, for not letting this…we do not want to let this situation become more out of control. We need to protect all the innocents and all the young from matters like this. In this regard, I have instructed my lawyers to do everything possible within the law to protect all the innocents, victims of this case. I believe that a press statement is being issued as we speak on what my lawyers have advised me to do.

核心词汇解析
单词组记:prior to, priority
pri = pre是一个拉丁前缀表示before
[书面]prior to = [口语]before
小翻译 : 在你离开之前,请完成这项工作.
prior to your departure, please complete this task.
小翻译: 预先警告/通知 prior warning/notice.
priority = prior + ity(名词) n.优先考虑的事情, 优先权
单词组忆: victor, victory, victim
vict中的V象征着胜利,vict-表示征服
victory n.胜利
victor =vict + or(人) n.胜利者, 征服者
victim = vict + im(我是) [助记]我是被征服了,当然就成了n.受害人,牺牲品
innocent = in + no + cent(一分钱) [助忆]兜里没有一分钱, 所以没有偷窃, 是无辜的 a. 无辜的, 天真的
instruct = in + struct(构造) vt.传授,告知 [助记]内心中去构建知识或信息

Lastly, I would like to thank everyone for coming here today and listening to what I have to say. I would like to also apologize once again to all the ladies and their families, my family and to everyone in Hong Kong and everyone in our society. I am deeply saddened by this. And I apologize to everyone (who) has to go through this. I would like to also thank you for giving me this opportunity to say what I have wanted to say all along in my heart. I hope, after today, I can have your forgiveness. With regard to this case, with everything, everything that has happened, I am deeply sorry. I hope you all accept my apology and give me a chance. Thank you.

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