我该怎么办?求助皮匠老师或863211老师,我是副申请人,长期在国内工作

两条双横线内是我之前发的帖子的一部分和863211老师的答复,现在我有新的问题,所以就以新帖的方式发了,见谅.

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现在绿卡排期就要到了,我想回美守候,可他一再表示不愿我长期在美,如果绿卡批下来,他会寄给我.这时我才觉得有点怪,为什么他总不想我呆长,


-You had better return to US as soon as possible for waiting the I-485 approval. If you stay in China, your I-485 probably will be denied and it seems your husband hope that to happen. As long as your marriage maintains, your I-485 will be approved. So, just come back.

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谢谢863211老师的指点.我已决定回美,但不跟他住在一起,但这样就会有问题了,我要换地址的话有可能给自己找麻烦,不换地址的话如果我的批下来了,他跟我说没收到绿卡怎么办（我没有他邮箱的钥匙）?虽然可以在网上查STATUS,但不知道会详细到什么程度.另外可以再跟移民局联系就说邮件没收到让他们寄到别的地址去吗?

请各位老师和有经验的网友多多指点,谢谢