last week, i met a ABC woman with three kids in my daughter's summer camp, we had a chat. her husband also a Chinese American . her husband was sent to Beijing for three years by a major corporation. she and her three kids went along with him.
she told me: people treat me poorly, because i can not speak Chinese fluently, i do not have this Caucasian's look, i am glad to come back home now, here is my home.
she also told me that her son has a classmate in the international school, this is a Norwegian boy, blond with blue eyes, people stopped the boy and asked taking picture with him.
this is how our fellow country men and women treat people. i just wonder some parents so eagerly send their kids to china to study and attend summer camps , your people do not worry about the culture shock , or emotional trauma the children may have if they encounter some bad experience.