Where Are The Fathers?

It seems that most mothers do not agree with my points, but how about fathers?
Father and mother shares equal responsibility to raise up kids.  Am I right?  I need your help, my fellow fathers.
Please listen, dear mothers.
I really and truly appreciate your ideas, even blames.  Unfortunately, no one of your great mothers tells me that some of our Chinese cultures work well in an industrial and capital society.  For instance, I would be very happy if you can tell me which one or two of our Chinese cultures are working well in America.  Yes, I know that America cultures are melting with other cultures.   But, how large percentage of our Chinese culture is in this advanced American cultures?
Cultures are a big term, which should include customs, habits, phylosohy, art, painting, literature and way of life, etc. Am I right?
I don't say that every piece of Chinese cultures is bad in an industrial society, but most of them are not that good or are working that well.  For instance, most of our Chinese Americans are doing pretty well in America with great kids, pretty decent houses and stable income.  But why cannot most of us be as me NO Worry?  Or do they worry too much?  Why do we behavior like this?  Is it a culture issue?  Is it behavior good in America?
My understanding and experience of Chinese cultures may be wrong or not be accurate.  But I do wonder why China has been poor and humble for so long.   Why is Giant Lion always sleeping, not waking up?  Yes, it is not that right to eat other animals.   But as a lion, she should have some mighty and forceful look at least, doesn’t she?  Look, it is over two hundred years and China had experienced so many different dynasties and governments.   I really believe that Chinese cultures made China a super model of feudal society, but might be great barriers to industrialization and capitalization.
Again thank you very much for your ideas.  You know what?  Lady is always right and kid is always lovely. That’s my philosophy.    I will fully and respectfully take your ideas into account and study hard. 
Just do me a favor if you will.  Think about my ideas again and think hard.  Most crazy ideas sometimes turn to be right and helpful.  It is very true that it is very hard and it takes time to understand and accept common but great ideas. 
It is my great pleasure to chat with you guys, and have a nice day.