少年维特之烦恼

二娃初中快毕业了,懵懵懂懂的,一路走来,好像交了几个女友,青春涌动有时既美好也免不了烦恼。

1.   女生看不上:

幼儿园的时候,住不远有家好朋友,家有两个女儿。大女儿比大娃小两岁,小女儿比二娃大一岁。因为两家关系很好,孩子们常常一起玩。大娃跟他家的大丫头玩得很好,二娃也喜欢跟二丫头玩。两人虽然常常一起玩,但是因为小女孩稍大,总觉得好像看不上二娃,觉得他太幼稚。看来恋爱中男生大一些是有道理的。

2.    被女生欺负:

上小学后,二娃在同龄的孩子中属于比较咋呼的那种。有不少女生喜欢这样的。但是小女生表现喜爱的方式很特别,她们常常Tease二娃,有时甚至拳打脚踢。有一个小女孩每每见到二娃就会把他扑倒在地,弄得他不厌其烦。

3.    被直接表白:

但是也有女孩比较直接明了的。三年级时,有一个混血女孩就明白告诉父母,说将来要嫁给二娃。她父母也是我们的好朋友,跟我们学女儿说的话,逗得大家笑得前仰后合的。混血女孩长得像洋娃娃芭比,非常可爱。可是二娃说他从来没喜欢过她。

4.    不被理解:

到了初中,孩子的心思开始复杂了。二娃第一个喜欢上的是一位菲律宾跟德裔的混血女生。这小女孩外表看似乎没什么特别。既不是非常漂亮,其他方面也没什么突出。

朋友问他:"Why do you like her? she is not that pretty."

二娃说:"she has the beauty that many people can't see."

俺当时还觉得这孩子不简单,能不被表面现象蒙蔽,看到人的内在美。这个小女孩也明显喜欢二娃,互相送过小礼物,也常一起Playdate。可是一个暑假,这个Crush就结束了。

5.   不敢表白:

7年级时,二娃又喜欢上一个白人女孩。这是一个外貌标致的女生。俺当时有点纳闷,怎么以前觉得二娃比较成熟,不是外貌协会的,现在好像完全不是那么回事啊? 二娃这回却不敢表白了,那女生对二娃也很好,可是二娃却迟迟不挑明。据说要到7年级最后一天才告诉她,原因是:

"If she rejects me, then I don't have to see her for the whole summer."

可是一直到7年级结束,二娃也没向她表白。8年级之后,二娃对这个女孩的热情冷却了。

6.    优柔寡断:

有一段时间他说,"I don't like any girls, and I am happy about it." 好像悠哉游哉了一阵。然而下半学年,他又渐渐喜欢上一位华裔女生。这个女孩跟他是小学同学,本来就认识。有一阵还一起上课外的画画课。现在想来女生对二娃的印象一直很好,不过那时二娃根本不在意。女孩现在长大了,身材高挑出落成美少女了。女孩圣诞节出去旅游,专门给二娃买了一个很酷的小靠枕作礼物。二娃也买了个Beats耳机作为回礼。 现在二娃有纠结上了舞会要不要请她做舞伴。。。

7.    追逐的烦恼:

有一次二娃跟俺谈到女朋友的事,他说:

"It's strange.  When I realize that the girl actually likes me, she becomes less attractive.  And eventually she may become annoying.  That's probably why none of them lasted long."

就像那谁说的“生活就像一盒巧克力,你永远不知道你会得到什么。”

登录后才可评论.
Logo

Looks like your ad blocker is on.

×

We rely on ads to keep creating quality content for you to enjoy for free.

Please support our site by disabling your ad blocker.

Continue without supporting us

Choose your Ad Blocker

  • Adblock Plus
  • Adblock
  • Adguard
  • Ad Remover
  • Brave
  • Ghostery
  • uBlock Origin
  • uBlock
  • UltraBlock
  • Other
  1. In the extension bar, click the AdBlock Plus icon
  2. Click the large blue toggle for this website
  3. Click refresh
  1. In the extension bar, click the AdBlock icon
  2. Under "Pause on this site" click "Always"
  1. In the extension bar, click on the Adguard icon
  2. Click on the large green toggle for this website
  1. In the extension bar, click on the Ad Remover icon
  2. Click "Disable on This Website"
  1. In the extension bar, click on the orange lion icon
  2. Click the toggle on the top right, shifting from "Up" to "Down"
  1. In the extension bar, click on the Ghostery icon
  2. Click the "Anti-Tracking" shield so it says "Off"
  3. Click the "Ad-Blocking" stop sign so it says "Off"
  4. Refresh the page
  1. In the extension bar, click on the uBlock Origin icon
  2. Click on the big, blue power button
  3. Refresh the page
  1. In the extension bar, click on the uBlock icon
  2. Click on the big, blue power button
  3. Refresh the page
  1. In the extension bar, click on the UltraBlock icon
  2. Check the "Disable UltraBlock" checkbox
  1. Please disable your Ad Blocker
  2. Disable any DNS blocking tools such as AdGuardDNS or NextDNS

If the prompt is still appearing, please disable any tools or services you are using that block internet ads (e.g. DNS Servers).

Logo