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L: 我以前可能没看完''工美''，可能只是上册的开头而已。应该是大学暑假来你家借看的。于午夜终于看完下册最后。从来都是正直坦荡的磊落君子茹苦受屈，人类悲剧一统天下。许是IMRX许是年龄， I couldn't stop weeping for a long while……
L：Sometimes, I like to re-read my past time favorite readings, such as Count Christo. They warm my heart.
L：Re-reading is also my favorite thing. We've developed our senses more finely through aging, deeper for sure. I have had great joy reading and listening to the english version of Mount Christo. I guess we are still fascinated by the plots of this genius and giant of french literature. I am glad you still have your sharp senses and passion.
L:At this difficult time, my brother and I often remind each other and my dad how lucky our family has been, for the many good times in our youth, and our present good lives, thanks to our loving parents. Yes, we are very fortunate, Dadi often said to my dad and me. I totally agree.
L:You have great loving parents. And I'd also say your granny was extraordinary. I miss them all. You are on the aggressive side while DD is suave and gentle. It's genetic and what fate meant to be. We are who we are and we don't need to be apologetic for whatever life molded us. You and DD made your parents proud. That's for sure
L:My dad said without him and our mother, Dadi may not be what he is now. But he believes I would be the not much different because of my own efforts. I disagree.
L:Your parents impact on you might not be as much as that of in DD, but it was there nonetheless.
L: I have been a happy and healthy person for most of my life. I now see this in my niece WW. I think this is my family legacy, or heritage if you will.
L:It's a blessing for both physical and mental health. One needs to be appreciative.
L:My mother's death left a huge void in my heart. It causes physical pain sometimes whenever I think of her. However, it dose not cause me unhappiness. She had prepared me for the last few years before her death by open conversations.
L:We deal with pains everyday. I miss your mother, a lioness once her children were concerned although you almost never need to be fended. But we experience human misery everyday, especially of the person we love and care about most deeply. I guess we never recover in a sense. Yet we move on carrying on his/her legacy.
L:Now, facing my brother's mortality, I am experiencing the same pain.
L:My thought and heart are with you and I do feel the pain. Talking won't take away the pain but it will help you to get through the day. We survive one day at a time and that is all right. We will overcome.
