Now I found a problem with our relationship. After I thought and thought again, I found I was lied. It seemed that I was trapped to get into this relationship. He told me in the beginning that his family is rich by saying that they owed two houses, but he never showed me the other one except for the trash one his family lives in now. Then, step by step, he started to say that his father's business is going down and his family is not as good as before. I was so young at that time and believed every word he said. Actually at that time, everyone says that we don't match. Maybe that's also the reason that he failed in his previous relationships. Who knows? I am the silly one. I agree that what attracts me most is his personalities. But it's not his insincerity. Think about it, he sent back money right before I came to the U.S., which resulted in a later finanical crisis during my stay. Did he ever think about it? Did he ever care about what I am thinking? After he started his job, he planned to hide money by depositing part of his salary in another bank which was found out by me later. He explained it's for saving. Actually when he went back to China the second time, he brought home a check from that bank and withdrew 1000 dollars to give to his family without notifying me, which was also found out by me later. His actions show that he doesn't care about what I'll think. Maybe just because he thinks he earns more, so he deserves spending at his will. I can't believe this. He also spent my saving in a national bank of 10,000! Last time I said it would be the last time that he cheated me on the money issue. Yes, I will keep my words. If he dares do it again, I'll talk to his family first and let them know our situation. Then I'll split the family expense with him. Maybe even worse.
