我的婚姻真谛

Why bother? It is just a sign or name. Even life is for rent, and everything is dust in the wind. Why bother to distinguish among small details as long as u know what I mean, :) 山穷水尽；行至水穷处；穷途末路...穷则变，变则通，通则达。 何为度？各人自有杆称，并无对错之分，因此对得住自己那杆称，心里舒坦就行。对别人的事指手划脚，更上升到意识形体的高度，不是自扰么？Life is too short, mind about my own business and be happy, :D 世上本无事，庸人自扰之。奔无罪，美无罪，真无罪。 莫要太狷介了，be open-minded. 呵呵，得抑郁症的原因可是很复杂的噢。 Don't be so simple, sometime naive. 同感，老邪开口就是“码字” [文学城博客论坛] - 酒涡(0 bytes ) (26 reads)2005-07-27 (The first of 2A's journey...) 破坏？还是有杀伤力的坏? 还是致命的温柔？ [文学城博客论坛] - 酒涡(38 bytes ) (68 reads)2005-09-26 (On the road...) 完美是不存在的，只有满意的。 穷则变，变则通。感情平淡的现状只要两个人共同努力一定是可以改变的，不用借助婚外恋情这样的极端手段吧？婚外恋情只能说明世风日下，人心不古。 老外婚前有乱性的，婚后commit了以后都老老实实的。 婚姻是个承诺，不论疾病，还是健康，不论好，还是坏，只到死亡才能分开。 我的婚姻真谛：宽以待人，严以律己，独立共生，共同进步。 相爱简单相处难，美满婚姻是要用智慧细心经营的。 不同意呀。得失之间，存乎寸心。是天堂还是地狱，是自己的心态造成的。本来相爱的两个人，怎么就无奈地成了无间道。有了瓶颈就要有行动去克服。爱和恨都可以，就是不能冷淡，因为冷淡就意味着根本没沟通呀。 楼主还是做些事吧，只要两人都诚心改变现状，瓶颈是会过去的。要交流，培养共同兴趣。性也很重要的。 看来男生都同意哈，哈哈。 哈哈, 是不为也，非不能也。多少粉丝眼巴巴等着那，要不您就也赏一小脸吧，啊？ life if short, being happy is the most important thing, live your life well, :D that depends on personality of the couple. some are emotionally stable and never attracted by the world outside any more once they are settle down. some never have chance or don't want to spend the energy to risk the hectic again. but this is very rare nowaday. besides, i don't think their life is better than those who see more people. variety is why the world is so beautiful. 围城而已吧，人总是贪的，总是羡慕得不到的。听人说国内初恋修成正果的，多年之后反倒更容易玩心大盛。 倒是婚前阅人无数的知道自己究竟要的是啥，一旦commit了就安心本分了。 @_@,有人顾影自怜，黯自神伤。 little related to Internet bah. have u watched "Sex and the City"? I bet they don't surf the web during their leisure time, haha. But the scene is quite similar to this one. 生如夏花，死如秋叶。生命本只是个过程和体验, 而已。作旁观者可以很安全, 但那算得上活过吗？ don't be so negative. the world doesn't lack beauty, only lack the eyes which can develope beauty, :D. 拾人牙惠，毫无创意。再说人家黄颜说过了，女人爱得是象征，不是物品本身。语录研究不透彻，打回去重读。 武林外史, haha, my favorite too. 树欲静而风不止,sigh. 愿赌服输贝,君子有所为有所不为,后悔往事已无益。嗯，随缘知足。 不知道为什么，有的歌就是直指人心，一听惊艳，过耳难忘。