我的男朋友是个很小气的人。他不止小气甚至有时有点自私。我很爱他。我不知是否应该爱下去。和他在一起的时候我会感觉到很压抑。He can not accept that i can not get off work on time. Every time when we argue about this, I think we should not be together. He is not the one that i am looking for. I feel that he has controled all my life. whatever the happeniess or sadness.