我已等你一千年

一年前，文学城中一片声的讨伐油腻。我赌气不作中年人了，决意向老年进发，并立下十条规则，提醒自己莫要在逃离中年的路途中迷失了方向。

狂奔了一年，回头看看。还行，十项要求基本都有进步。只是忘了“从容”两字。人家为真爱可以等上一千年，那么，爱自己为什么不能多给自己一些时间，充许自己在中年阶段多停留一会儿？

博友梅子姐说，要想健康，从容而老，必须具有豁达而开朗舍得放弃的平常心态。优雅智慧的梅姐好久没来溜弯了，愿她安好。

去年的博文： 重温十项，继续努力。

1) 要爱吃。吃的东西多样化，但少吃。尝试不同风味的食品。

2) 要爱玩。锻炼身体，找自己喜欢的，不碰那些苦哈哈的项目。春夏秋冬，多在大自然里活动。

3) 要爱美。买衣服和化妆品选新的色彩式样。衣柜里旧衣服重新排列组合穿出不同的风格。

4) 要爱财。积极地工作或投资，不断更新的专业技能和相关知识。

5) 要找新娱乐。种花种菜做美食写文章，玩得好不好不重要，喜欢就行。

6) 要和年轻人交往。尊重小朋友，学习年轻人处世的方式。

7) 要和自己和平相处。少苟求，多包容。坦然承认喜怒哀乐都是对生活的热情。

8) 要寻未知。不懂不可怕，不敢提问就会逐渐丧失了好奇心。

9) 要爱折腾。想到就做，错了改正，失败了重来。认真去做，成败由天。在折腾中增长阅历。

10) 要喜新。旧的要珍惜，但没有新鲜感，生活少了乐趣。新朋友，新书新电影，新科技，新的挑战，新的一天一时一刻。。。

不求十全十美，但求进步。从容，从容，再从容。

The day we met,

Frozen I held my breath

Right from the start

I knew that I'd found a home for my heart

Beats fast

Colors and promises

How to be brave?

How can I love when I'm afraid to fall

But watching you stand alone?

All of my doubt suddenly goes away somehow

One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you

Darling don't be afraid I have loved you

For a thousand years

I'll love you for a thousand more

Time stands still

Beauty in all she is

I will be brave

I will not let anything take away

What's standing in front of me

Every breath

Every hour has come to this

One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you

Darling don't be afraid I have loved you

For a thousand years

I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you

Time has brought your heart to me

I have loved you for a thousand years

I'll love you for a thousand more

I'll love you for a thousand more

Ohh

One step closer

I have died everyday waiting for you

Darling don't be afraid I have loved you

For a thousand years

I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you

Time has brought your heart to me

I have loved you for a thousand years

I'll love you for a thousand more

Songwriters: David Hodges / Christina Perri