转一个好玩的给风起评论。。。

约会白女人，黑女人，印度女人，中国女人。。。
----王乃田


上个学期，初次给本科生上课，发现比给研究生上课要难些。

给本科生上课，要有趣。这个比较容易，只要心态轻松，要想有趣不难。心理学的东西，有趣的玩意儿很多。

难的是，有些概念，从来没有想到需要解释的，也得解释。解释起来，还真是不容易。尤其是，给学生布置的阅读，他们很少真正在上课前好好读过。

于是只好想办法。有时候觉得好像把他们当作中学生对待比较合适。想想也是，这个班上的人多数是大一或大二的，刚刚离开中学不久。

有一节课，讲interpersonal patterns. 刚好前两天在网上看到一个说跟不同种族国家的女人约会的帖子，感觉很好玩，于是做成power point 给他们看。因为课上多是女孩，且不同种族的都有，反映很热烈, 尤其是一个黑人女生。


WHITE WOMEN


First date: You get to kiss her goodnight.

Second date: You get to grope all over and make out a bit.

Third date: You get to have sex but only in the missionary position.


IRISH WOMEN:

First Date: You both get blind drunk and have sex.

Second Date: You both get blind drunk and have sex.

20th Anniversary: You both get blind drunk and have sex.


ITALIAN WOMEN:


First Date: You take her to a play and an expensive restaurant.

Second Date: You meet her parents and her Mom makes spaghetti &meatballs.

Third Date: You have sex, she wants to marry you & insists on a 3-carat ring.

5th Anniversary: You already have 5 kids together & hate the thought of having sex.

6th Anniversary: You find yourself a Mistress.


JEWISH WOMEN:


First Date: You get terrific headache.

Second Date: You get even more great headache.

Third Date: You tell her you\'ll marry her and never get headache again.


CHINESE WOMEN:


First date: You get to buy her an expensive dinner but nothing happens.

Second date: You buy her an even more expensive dinner. Nothing happens again.

Third date: You don\'t even get to the third date and you\'ve already realized nothing is ever going to happen.



INDIAN WOMEN:


First date: Meet her parents.

Second date: Set the date of the wedding.

Third date: Wedding night.


BLACK WOMEN:


First Date: You get to buy her a real expensive dinner.

Second Date: You get to buy her and her girlfriends a real expensive dinner.

Third Date: You get to pay her rent.

Tenth Date: She\'s pregnant by someone other than you.



MEXICAN WOMEN:


First Date: You buy her an expensive dinner, get drunk on Tequila, and have sex in the back of her car.

Second Date: She\'s pregnant.

Third Date: She moves in. One week later, her mother, father, his girlfriend, her two sisters, her brother, all of their kids, her grandma, her father\'s girlfriend\'s mother, her two cousins, her sister\'s Boyfriend and his three kids move in and you live on rice and beans for the rest of your life in your home that used to be nice, but now looks like a home along the Tijuana strip.


PAKISTANI WOMEN:


First Date: Mother, Father, Brothers, Sisters, Cousins, Aunts, Uncles, Friends and entire Arab community finds out.

Second Date: You are shot dead.

No third date.


06/24/09