网络恋爱导师马克-罗斯费德总结了10个让男人对你迷恋的tips。 以下是摘录和翻译。原来是口头演说，用了一些俚语。国情不同，他的建议并不一定是适合各国文化。让我们看看西方人的恋爱文化，学英语也涨知识。
10 things that make men obsess over you
这10件事，让男人对你迷恋
10
Gratefulness and a grateful attitude
懂得感恩及感恩的态度。
如果你对生活中的点滴表达感恩之情，
He is going to see you at the cut above.
他会视你为优秀（高人一筹）。
9
Naturally challenging
自然地让他感觉到挑战性。
这绝不是play hard-to-get
玩弄难得到的把戏，
而是have healthy priorities
具有健康的优先主次选择
That set you apart.
这样他会对你刮目相看
8
You don’t have an agenda
你不着急（结婚并没有在你的议事日程里）
You are happy to be single. You are open to meeting someone and things going further
你对单身感到快乐，但也不拒绝遇到某人而让事情发展得更远。
7
Have opinions
有自己的观点
你Stick to your beliefs
坚持自己的信念，
Stand your ground
坚守不退场
Have fun with a little debate with him about it
饶有兴致地和他争论。
他一定会对你欣赏的。
6
Passion
热情
当你对生活显示出热情，即使是很简单的事，
Men absolutely love that energy, they want to see you more.
男人绝对喜爱这种活力，他们会想更多地见你。
5
Banter and wittiness
能轻松说笑并且很机智。
If you can banter with a guy,
如果你能和男人开玩笑，
you are going to be a superstar in his mind.
你在他心里绝对会成为一个明星。
When you show the social intelligence to be witty and banter with a guy over points, he is going to find that very attractive.
当你显示出社交智慧与男人在某些点上机智风趣地说笑，他会觉得非常有吸引力。
4
Spontaneity
自发性
当你显示你的自发性，也就显示出你对新事物新体验的开放性，男人知道
He is going to have a vast array of very experiences with you
他会和你有一系列的真正的经历和体验啦。
3
Down to earth
朴实，实在
Being low maintenance， not being concerned with the superficial
不需要他太多照顾，对肤浅的东西无所需
2
confidence
自信
Its the belief that you believe you’ll be a great catch.
你相信自己很有魅力。
Certain insecurities are not going to be as attractive.
不安全感是缺乏魅力的
1
Bring uniquely positive experiences to his life
给他的生活带来独特的积极的经历。
If you show a man of your quirks maybe that is your unique way that you flirt；maybe it’s the way you are physical with him；maybe it’s your sexual chemistry；maybe it’s the way your personality；maybe the way you vibe with him；the way you banter， the more unique experiences you can provide to a man that is something no other women can replicate, that is ultimately what is going to make men the most crazy and the most obsessive for you.
如果你给男人显示你的独特性，比如你独有的调情方式，你和他身体接触的模式，你的性感化学反应，你的个性表达，你和他感应的模式，你调侃的方式，你提供给男人越多的独特经历，而这些经历是其他女人无法替代的，这越是会使男人对你疯狂和迷恋。
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