他强由他强，
清风拂山冈。
他横任他横，
明月照大江。
Let his strength be but the wind that sweeps over the mountains; Let his harshness be but the moon that illuminates the river.
---金庸《倚天屠龙记》
她美由她美，
错过不后悔。
她娇任她娇，
鱼头炖剁椒。
Let her beauty be but regret that is never in my blood; Let her tenderness be but the fish head that simmers chIlli pepper.
Simmer: 也可以翻译成 拼命忍住的意思
-----爱求独孤
